The T (Turn the conversation), the third section, is used to teach step three. It is meant to train the student in the use of transition questions utilized to redirect a discussion to spiritual matters.
Getting the Conversation Started
This may sound simplistic, but many students don’t know how to get a conversation started with a stranger. Evangelism is all about talking to people. If you don’t know how to get a conversation started it will be hard to tell someone about Jesus.
ASK questions about the person
The easiest way to talk to someone is ask them questions
about themselves. People
generally love to talk (brag) about themselves.
You can use the standard 5 W questions listed below or something similar:
What’s your name ?
Where are you from ?
Where do you go to school ?
What’s your major ?
Why did you come here ?
Believe it or not these questions are very effective at Beach Reach and on your campus, because everyone is interested in meeting new people and bragging about themselves. Be creative and develop other questions that will help you get to know the person. Look for logos on their clothing (pictures and posters in their dorm or apartment) that you can use to inquire about.
CONNECT with the person by finding common interests
Everyone has something in common with everyone else. If you are a college student you have many things in common with other college students. Such as: money problems, relationship struggles, exercise (or lack of), classes, family situations, etc.
You can find common interests, by asking questions about issues you have in common.
You can use the 4 F questions listed below or something similar:
Facebook :
Are you on facebook? So what do have listed as
activities?
What do you have listed as Interests?
Family
:
Are you the only one in your family in college?
Where does your family live?
Friends
:
Did you come down with some friends?
Do you have a lot of friends around here?
Finances:
Do you have a job? How are you paying for
college?
Keep asking questions till you find something in
common with them.
Opening the Conversation
to Spiritual Matters
The goal is to turn the conversation toward a discussion
of Spiritual issues and ultimately
about a relationship with Jesus. As you listen to the person, pray
that the Holy Spirit will guide to the right
moment to begin talking about Spiritual things.
TURN the conversation toward Spiritual issues with a transitional question.
A transitional question is the easiest way to open the conversation to Spiritual issues. This type of question is about God or spiritual issues. The questions used should promote discussion, rather than an "I’m right your wrong" argument, or a simple yes /no response. The idea is to get the non-believer to talk about what they know about Christianity and help them to put aside false ideas in order to enter into a relationship with Jesus.
There are a wide variety of transition questions that can be used in evangelism. (See the entire list of questions entitled Selected Transitional Questions). The transitional question that we will use for Beach Reach is
"What brings you the greatest satisfaction?"
The question is opened ended and designed to create discussion about spiritual matters. The question allows the non-believer to freely express their opinions in a non-threatening way. The questions promote dialogue, which helps the non-believer feel a part of the interaction rather than the target of an evangelistic encounter.
Using the Question
The question was developed to be asked in a sequential question type format. In the midst of a conversation, one simply asks, "Do you mind if I ask you a question that I like to ask the people that I meet?" If the person gives you permission proceed with the questions.
Practice the ACT Principle
To close the session get with one other person you
do not know.
You will have 5 minutes to use the ACT
principle to find out all you can about
them and turn the conversation toward Spiritual matters using the
Satisfaction
question.